Your guiding motto in dealing with women

When applying game, a large part of it is to come off as an attractive as a man you can present yourself.

Whilst «female game» is largely based on appearing as visually and otherwise attractive.

Thus for all «what so should say ? what should» either in text game or in person, I have developed a guiding motto for you.

This motto or mantra you can always, when you are in doubt.

Here it is:

«Would an attractive man do that ?»

Attractive here meaning, a man who easily gets women and has plenty of options.

So, should you text her after a she hasnt answered your calls etc ?

Just think, «Would an attractive man do that?». The answer is usually now.

In fact, my greatest improvement in game, was when I first of all believed I was a sexually attractive man.

And whenever I was about to do something that might be beta, needy or otherwise I just referred to the motto and chose the best behaviour.

Note:

This is not a license to be lazy. Many «naturals» approach, flirt, escalate and seduce. However, they dont give off the vibe in any form of communcation of «needing» the female.

Response to AskTRP thread: 16 april

Thread.

Schedule a date with her and try to bang her.

The level of unecessary detail her, is amazing and I admit I have engaged it myself many times. Overanalyzing.

It is to me, a sign of overinvestment on the outcome, on your part.

 

Concerning this:

«Chatted a bit made some sexy jokes,she laughed,but I was feeling very tired of her at that point and I felt as shit that I didn’t succeed in my goal, and fuck it was raining ,so just answered shortly and hung up ,although I realized she wanted to talk more.»

Good. You restricted her access to what she wants; attention. Furthermore, she didnt give you what you want, yet atleast; sex.

 

The fact that you had to write;

«She laughed» is also an example of overinvestment.

You probably feel like «Ohh, I am getting closer to punani.» But the fact you even care/remember whether she laughed after or not, in that phone call means you are too invested in this outcome.

Reponse to askTRP «Walked out on girl but unsure of whether i failed»

Link: http://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/21qg80/walked_out_on_girl_but_unsure_of_whether_i_failed

The Original post:

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As a preface i’m a male uni student. the girl has 3 years on me.

I went on a date with a girl i had made out with at a party a week earlier. We go to the movies and end up at her house. We start making out once again, and she gets on top of me and starts grinding. I go for her bra, but the second my hand starts to undo it she sits up and stops me. «I’m sorry, you have to know me for at least 5 days before you can do that». So i resist and say «Are you serious?», which i believe was a mistake. regardless i continue making out and try once more, attempting to push past her barrier. She once again stops me. I just flat out ask her, «Is this going anywhere? You are grinding on me but you don’t want to go any further?». She tells me guys usually like when she does that and doesn’t understand where i’m coming from. I immediately tell her to stop and I promptly leave.

How could I have played this better? I don’t want to repeat my errors as I feel I could have closed.

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My answer:

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You didnt put up with shit you didnt like. GOOD!

You didnt recognize LMR, nonsense shit-testing. BAD!

Its ok, just practice.

My take on how to play it better:

«I’m sorry, you have to know me for at least 5 days before you can do that».

[She might have this rule actually, but rules go out the window if she is attracted enough]

So i resist and say «Are you serious?»»

[WRONG! You are appealing to logic, by trying to point out her inconsisten behavior. Never appeal to logic during seduction. Appeal to EMOTIONS or authority 🙂 😦 😀 😛

You are also putting her in a position of authority. This is what it sounds like to her at some level; «Oh, if you serious massa than I will just pack my manhood away in my pants after we spent an hour at the cinema attending to your needs for bonding and attention.»

My alternative response, written in front of a computer screen with «all the time in the world»:

Appeal to emotions:

«I feel like we have known each other for weeks already» Cha-ching!

or authority(ie, your self assumed authority over her body):

«Take of this bra now, I wanna see your tits (whilst rubbing her tits) ]

Or horniness:

Breathe deep in her ear, and tell your how horny you are, what you wanna do to her etc.

«[Breathing deeply] I wanna put my raging boner inside your wet pussy, I wanna ravage you like I am a caveman and there is no tomorrow! » Etc. etc.

«regardless i continue making out and try once more» Good!

«She once again stops me.»

[Her pussy is her triumph card. She wants to know she has value. Or she is not sufficiently horny. Women get turned on by the act of sex(male domination) and of being desired. Thus feed these feelings if she is not soaking already.]

«I just flat out ask her, «Is this going anywhere? You are grinding on me but you don’t want to go any further?».

[WRONG! Appealing to logic again! Dude, stop appealing to logic during seduction and escalation. Teasing, dirty talk, cocky & funny, assume the sale etc. NEVER LOGIC! Logic reminds a bitch to hold out on the pussy!]

[My alternative response, again written in the comfort of my own home:

I get so HARD when you grind on me like that, and (while grabbing her ass) your ass feels so good. I just wanna lay (throw her around into more submissive position) you down and fuck you like a beast! First SUCK MY COCK! (Whip out your cock!) ]

«She tells me guys usually like when she does that and doesn’t understand where i’m coming from. I immediately tell her to stop and I promptly leave.»

Everything is on you. You have to put your horniness out there, you have to put your sexuality on the line, you have to GIVE HER ORDERS on what to do WITHOUT OPTIONS to please you.

If she is not attracted ie playing along, then leave, or if at your crib stop giving her attention.

Please read more redpill books. And good luck next time. Just being at TRP means you are on your way.

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Eight Signs She Is In Love With You

I am writing a document for some younger male relatives, because I want them to avoid the bp pitfalls with women.

Furthermore, one of my older and closest male relatives also has a very bp mindset and has been in a relationship for 6 years.

So this post is for a piece in that document, called «Eight Signs she is in love», where I am thinking about how to identify if your her «alpha fuck» or «beta buck».

Here are the signs:

1. She wants to do things for you and becomes happy when she satisfies you (by coooking, cleaning, spending money, sex, assisting your studies/work/business etc.)
2. Small changes, and small negative or critical comments from you makes her very anxious about the state of the relationship, and doubting and self-blaming.
3. Overly concerned with everything you say, and also what you write in text messages etc.
4. Constantly asking for validation: «Do you love me ? / Love me as much as I love you ? Do I look good ? Does my ass/tits/stomach/legs/hair/eyes/lips look good ? etc» and she needs in general reassurance regularly that she likes you.
5. You guys are in a relationship, and she comes to you with her most important life decisions and she is calmed down by your answers and solutions, and FOLLOWS them.
6. She voluntary wants to give you BJ, when she is horny. If a female is attracted and infatuated with you, then BJ is sexually satisfying for her. If it is not, she is not attracted and infatuated with you.
7. Ignores your negative sides, and easily forgives you for rather serious offenses.
8. Adopts your view of the world, opinions and habits.

Please add other suggestions if you have any or comment on mine.